Anyone Can Be A Father, It's A Lot Harder To Be A Dad.
- Andrew Nott
- Aug 14
- 2 min read
With Father’s Day just around the corner, I’ve found myself reflecting on the journey of being both a father and a grandfather. Days like this aren’t just about gifts or cards — they’re about taking a moment to appreciate the relationships and moments that have shaped our lives.
There are milestones that forever change you, and the day I became a father was one of them. Holding our first child, feeling that mix of pride, joy, and responsibility, I knew my life had shifted forever. Watching our children grow, guiding them through challenges, and seeing them achieve their dreams has been one of Julie's and my greatest privileges.
And then, life gave me another gift — the gift of grandchildren. Becoming a grandfather brought a new kind of joy, one that’s hard to put into words. There’s something magical about watching your children become parents themselves. Grandchildren have a way of lighting up your world with their laughter, curiosity, and unconditional love.
These experiences have taught me that family isn’t just about shared blood — it’s about shared moments. It’s the Sunday lunches, the school concerts, the weekend phone calls, and even the quiet evenings spent together. It’s about showing up for each other, no matter what.
At Besari Finance, these values run deep. We’re a small family business, and we approach our work the same way we approach our relationships — with care, respect, and a genuine commitment to helping people achieve what matters most to them.
When we help a client secure their first home loan, we’re not just completing paperwork. We’re helping lay the foundation for birthday celebrations, backyard cricket games, and Christmas mornings around the tree. When we help someone refinance, it’s about giving them the breathing space to enjoy what matters most — like taking that long-overdue family holiday or helping their own kids buy their first home.
Being a father and grandfather has made this work deeply personal for me. I understand the hopes and dreams parents carry for their families. I know the hard work that goes into creating a safe, happy home. That’s why at Besari Finance, we take the time to understand your goals — not just for today, but for the years and generations ahead.
Father’s Day is a reminder that time moves quickly. Children grow, grandchildren arrive, and the moments we have are precious. But the values of love, support, and togetherness remain constant.
Homes aren’t just bricks and mortar — they’re the backdrop to your family’s story. And here at Besari Finance, we’re proud to help you build a foundation where those stories can unfold for generations to come.
